Once the emotional charge is lowered, help clients extract meaning from their experience.
Ask reframing questions like:
ā āWhat did you learn about yourself from this?ā
ā āIf this were happening in a heroās journey, what moment is this?ā
ā āWhat strengths did this event awaken in you?ā
š” Reframing isnāt about lying to the client. Itās about helping them see beyond the paināto the growth, resilience, and transformation they never noticed before.
š Why it works: Trauma makes people feel powerless. Meaning-making gives them back a sense of agency.
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