Hey There, Hypno-Healers!
Letâs talk about TRUST. You know, that little thing thatâs supposed to make relationships work? That fragile, delicate, all-important human experience that can take years to build and about five seconds to destroy? Yeah, that one.
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As hypnotherapists, we see it all the time: clients struggling to let others in, flinching at the idea of vulnerability, or feeling like their subconscious is actively sabotaging any shot at connection. Maybe theyâve been burned before. Maybe theyâve got deep-seated attachment wounds. Maybe they were ghosted one too many times and now trust people about as much as they trust gas station sushi.
But hereâs the thingâtrust isnât just a choice. Itâs a subconscious program. And if that program has been corrupted by betrayal, neglect, or toxic relationships, hypnotherapy is one of the most powerful tools for rewriting the code.
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đ Why Hypnosis Works for Rebuilding Trust
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Most trust issues arenât just about what happenedâtheyâre about what the subconscious learned from it. If someone has been hurt in the past, their brain may create unconscious barriers to prevent it from happening again. The result? Overprotection, avoidance, or straight-up running for the hills at the first sign of emotional intimacy.
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Hypnosis allows us to bypass the defensive mind and reprogram deep-seated beliefs about trust, safety, and relationships. Instead of just talking about trust issues, we can help clients experience safety and connection at a subconscious level.
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đ ď¸ Hypnotherapy Techniques for
Healing Relationship Trauma
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Here are three powerful techniques to help clients rebuild trust using hypnotherapy:
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1ď¸âŁ Regression to Positive Attachment Experiences
đ§ What it Does:
- Helps clients reconnect with memories of trust and safety (even if theyâre small or long forgotten).
- Creates a subconscious template for what healthy, secure attachment feels like.
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đŻ How to Use It:
- Guide clients into a relaxed trance and ask them to recall a time when they felt truly safe with another person.
- If no positive memories exist, use future pacingâhelp them imagine what trust would feel like in a secure, loving relationship.
- Anchor this feeling to a physical touch (hand over heart, pressing thumb and forefinger together) so they can access it when fear arises.
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2ď¸âŁ Releasing the Betrayal Imprint
đ§ What it Does:
- Addresses the subconscious âloopâ of past betrayals that keep playing in the background.
- Helps clients release stored emotional pain so they donât unconsciously project old wounds onto new relationships.
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đŻ How to Use It:
- Guide clients through a symbolic release exercise (imagine placing past betrayals in a box, locking it, and watching it dissolve).
- Use somatic tracking to locate the tension or fear in their body and move it out through breathwork or movement.
- Offer a post-hypnotic suggestion: âThe past does not define your ability to trust. You are free to choose trust when it serves you.â
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3ď¸âŁ Parts Therapy for the Protector Self
đ§ What it Does:
- Helps clients negotiate with the part of themselves thatâs blocking trust.
- Encourages self-compassion and understanding for their protective mechanisms.
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đŻ How to Use It:
- Have clients dialogue with their subconscious protector (the part thatâs skeptical, cautious, or outright terrified of trusting again).
- Ask: âWhat are you trying to protect me from?â
- Help the client acknowledge this partâs good intentions while also shifting its approach (i.e., instead of avoiding trust, it learns to recognize healthy vs. unhealthy risks).
- Anchor in a new belief: âI can trust wisely, without fear controlling my choices.â
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đĄ Final Thought: Trust Isnât BlindâItâs Wise
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Trust isnât about pretending bad things never happen. Itâs about knowing that no matter what, you will be okay. Your clients donât need to trust everyoneâthey need to trust themselves to handle whatever comes their way. And thatâs exactly what hypnosis helps them do.
How have you helped clients work through trust issues? Send a reply and let me know!
Oh, and if you havenât signed up for the course yet, nowâs the time! Your future clients will thank you. đĄđ
Sign up here: TFH Course
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Hereâs To Healing From
The Inside Out,
Jesse & Zac
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Co-Founders of Trauma Focused Hypnotherapy
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